It's a DuBarr Thing

This is my point of view.   Women can hold onto someone only for so long.  They will poor their blood sweat and tears into a relationship that they think a man doesn't care about.  She will, at first, be unreasonable, manipulative, curious, vindictive, and most likely cause more chaos that only creates grief for both parties when it's over.  Rarely is there a human that can be so done, with no turning back in mind, and just walk away without having any sort of self doubt or questioning if it's the right thing to do.  Typically I'm referring to couples that have been together long enough to have children though it's still realistic for couples who don't. It depends on how long the individuals have known one another as well as if there are any children involved.  The end of a relationship is always more difficult than it is easy for most people.  In my own experience I have gone about seeing what I wanted to see in men rather than believing they know what they wan

Even though my mom was my primary resource my dad still played a huge part in my life. I always had what I needed as well as many things I didn't need.  My dad always made sure to tell me he loved me. He always called, sent me cards, sent me letters, and often sent me money.  My mom showed me a letter that she received from my dad at one point that basically thanked her for being a kind and understanding person that never pursued child support. He claimed that if she had he'd never have gotten as far as he did in life.  As for my opinion on child support, I feel that it's for absent parents not failed relationships. First I have to say that I do believe and understand that there are certain situations that are just not safe for anyone let alone a young child. Naturally no child should ever be made to go to or left in an unsafe environment. It is very sad when your child ends up in the hands of the other parent who is not stable enough and an incident occurs that unfortunate