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It's a DuBarr Thing

It's a DuBarr Thing Pronounced doo-bar. Life is complicated. People are complicated. And sometimes the things we carry around inside us need somewhere to go. This is my place to write about life, lessons, mistakes, growth, gratitude, frustration, relationships, healing, and all the little things that make us who we are. Some posts may be thoughtful. Some may be uncomfortable. Some may make you laugh. Some may make you think. We're all entitled to our feelings.

Listen and Silent contain the same letters.

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- February 12, 2025

The best way to start a conversation with someone is by listening to them. If you want to talk to someone be sure you've heard them.

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The only option is forward

- April 01, 2024

As a young girl and up through my teens I'd have thoughts about relationships, marriage, and kids, sure. Like many other teenagers I wanted to test the waters. The idea of being loved always inspired me to dream like a little girl but my dreams involved more nature, driving, sight seeing, sex, drugs, music, and so on. Rather than buying a house with a white fence and starting a family I wasn't easy to be with so I spent a lot of my time doing things on my own. Many people struggle immensely with even just the idea of being alone. It's important never to fill the void but to be your own void. I know for me it's the hardest thing in the world to be a good mom when your heart is breaking and I feel like that holds true for a majority of people in this world. A lot of men grow up and want to feel like men. They have an innate desire to provide and protect so I believe it's safe to say that they seek out prospects that help them fill thos...

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- November 20, 2024

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The affect of our negligence..

- June 16, 2025

Sometimes when I look at my children I feel sad for them. Both of my boys really struggle in life. My oldest son has a drinking problem. Seeing him drink the way he does breaks my heart because I caused him trauma at a young age and I see what's happening. I hear him go on and on sometimes and deep down I know exactly what he's really saying and I know why. He puts on such a tough guy act and talks like he's big and bad with that "nobody can fuck with me" demeanor though he's actually the complete opposite of what he portrays. He's the kindest, sweetest, most caring man. It's been blocked out of my mind for the last 16 years and now watching my son a long with the flashbacks that jolt in and out of my brain I've been trying to work through the hurt, guilt, and shame lingering within me. About 2 years ago I began noticing past events coming to surface and I've had no choice but to endure those thoughts. I've spent a lot of time cryin...