Raise your own children..

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 I read or heard somewhere that: 

You have to raise your kids so you can spoil your grandchildren because if you spoil your kids you'll be raising your grandchildren.


This should be presented upon billboards across the United States!!! Children benefit a great amount from having grandparents in their life but more than anything a child's life is directly related to the lifestyle of their parent. 

Raising a child is more than just providing financial support.  There are strategies and tactics that go a long way.  If you're going to produce a child then at least make sure you choose them over everything because they never got the choice to choose you. Put your time, energy, and patience into the children you create so the world has more loving people in it.

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